When you are a single lady and you want to score points over married women and you come up with stuff like; ”Marriage is not achievement”
”I want to achieve all my goals before even thinking of marriage”
”Oprah Winfrey didn’t marry and she is one of the most powerful women in the world”
”I’m more successful than most of them claiming Mrs”
”I rather stay single and live my life than be a submissive house wife”
You see,When you come up with junks like that,You make it look like marriage hinders women’s progress.It makes you feel better when you look through your window and see a struggling wife and that motivates your post.
Dr Ngozi Okonja Iweala is a Nigerian woman like you,She was married before any of us heard her name.She is bigger than you.
How about you knowing now that Margaret Thatcher was married to Denis Thatcher before she became UK Prime minister for 11 Years?
What if you know that Theresa May was married to Philip May long before she became UK Prime minister?
How about Mrs Merkel the German Chancellor? You see,Your little head can only point you to those below you.I’ll go further to show you married women that are well above any single woman on earth.
I say this always,Marriageis a choice,You don’t have to get married.Having kids are choices people make,You don’t have to have kids if you don’t want to.
But,What you can’t do is to fool yourself that just because you are 30 Year old single lady with a good job and a nice Car that somehow you are better than 30 years old married woman who haven’t got as much as you.
I see so much foolishness these days that nothing surprise me any more.
You are Single lady whose shape is awesome,You make comment about your University mate that married early and looks out of shape now.That made you feel better isn’t it?
The biggest thing that entered your Vagina is 6 inch Penis,Your mate already pushed out 4 Babies minimum of 3.5 KG each out of her Vagina.
Your boobs are facing down now and need push up bra to keep it in shape,No child sucked it yet.Your mate already fed 4 kids out of her boobs.
Look at the mirror now and imagine what will be left of your sexy boobs after 4 hungry babies have had time with it.
Yet,Somehow,Your head tells you that your life is better than your mate simply because you have a good job,Nice Car[s]and nice house.
You see,Life is NOT and will NEVER be a competitive race.
Run your race and let others run theirs.
The moment you start throwing jibes at people because something is telling you that you are better than them,That’s when you shot yourself in the foot.
I see some single guys make insulting comments too towards people with families.You can’t even feed yourself well and your girlfriend and yet you have a go at people with families that are struggling.
Ordinary Bride price and traditional marriage list you are complaining,How can you pay school fees and buy baby food then?
You see,Whether you are married,Have kids,Or no kids or single or whatever,Stay on your lane. You are not better than anyone else.
When you come here to bleat about people you are better than,You are simply looking down.Try and look up and see those much better than you.
Life is a God given privilege,Live yours and let others live theirs.
Please argue with your destiny
Great Day to you all. . . #BUILDYOURSELF#
~ Salvador Dali